What documents do I need to gather for my divorce?
How should I communicate with my soon to be ex-spouse?
What is the process of a divorce – start to finish?
2. Service of the Summons and Petition
3. Initial Case Management Conference (ICMC) with the Court if you are in the metro area
5. Alternative Dispute Resolution (this can be mediation, a Financial Early Neutral Evaluation (FENE), or a Social Early Neutral Evaluation (SENE)
If at any point during the steps identified above, either you or your spouse have disputes on temporary issues related to custody, parenting time, or financial support, either you or your spouse may seek temporary relief by bringing a temporary motion. Also, at any point during the process you and your spouse can reach a settlement, and your attorney will draft a Stipulated Judgment and Decree. Once the Judgment and Decree is submitted to the Court and entered, you will become officially divorced.
How long does it take for a divorce to be final?
How much will it cost?
When spousal maintenance is an issue in the dissolution, it is very common for each party to hire a financial expert to assist with cash flow projections. Financial experts are also necessary when determining the value of business ownership, should either party have an interest in a business.
It is important that you understand your payment arrangement with your attorney up front. Our firm charges an hourly fee for our services, and you will be charged each time that our office works on your file. All clients sign a retainer agreement when they hire us, which carefully delineates our firm’s billing practices.
What are some things that I can do to avoid excessive attorney’s fees?
You will want to work with your attorney in considering a cost/benefit analysis on certain issues. For example, it can be expensive to search for hidden assets or to pursue items of personal property with unproven value. In those types of instances, consider what you are pursuing and whether the cost is worth the likely result.
Will I have to go to Court? What are some alternative options? What forms of Alternative Dispute Resolution are there?
If the parties are not in agreement on all issues, which is more common, once the case filed with the Court an informal, off-the-record court appearance called the Initial Case Management Conference (the “ICMC”) will be scheduled. This hearing gives the judicial officer a chance to meet informally with the parties and counsel, ascertain what agreements have been arrived at and what issues are still not resolved, and schedule a path forward. After the ICMC, the parties will have an opportunity to exchange information and engage in Alternate Dispute Resolution.
Depending on the complexity of the case, the parties can elect to participate in Early Neutral Evaluation (“ENE”) for either or both financial and child-related issues. The parties and counsel meet with a court-appointed ENE facilitator shortly after the ICMC. Each party is afforded an opportunity to present his or her desired resolution of the issues, and the facilitator will work through the issues to try and find common ground.
If common ground cannot be reached, the facilitator will make a recommendation based on what the facilitator believes the most likely result would be if a judge were deciding. The parties are free to accept or reject this recommendation. Importantly, the ENE process is confidential. This means that in the event the parties do not resolve all issues through the ENE process, the facilitator will simply report to the Court that agreement was not reached. No details of the substance of the ENE process, including the parties’ respective positions, are reported to the Court or may be used later in the litigation process.
The ENE process has the advantage of a potential resolution of issues prior to incurring the fees associated with extensive discovery and expert reports. It is most useful where the parties are familiar with the extent of the marital estate or where the custody and parenting time issues are amenable to compromise and settlement. The ENE process has the disadvantage of the possibility of a premature settlement when all of the facts and circumstances are not known, and may not be appropriate where the issues are complex.
If the parties elect not to go through the ENE process, after adequate information has been exchanged, the parties may participate in formal mediation, which can be evaluative (as in the ENE process), or not evaluative, where the mediator works with the parties and counsel to resolve issues, but does not make an independent recommendation.
A third form of Alternative Dispute Resolution is the Moderated Settlement Conference. This is a court-ordered process which usually takes place after extensive discovery and previous settlement efforts have occurred, and may be a last attempt to settle prior to trial. In this process, the parties and counsel work with a mediator and the Court. The Court can be available to provide informal opinions on legal questions, and those opinions may give insight to the parties on the likelihood of prevailing on various issues at trial. In the event the parties are able to reach agreements in this process, the mediator, counsel and parties will appear before the Court to read their agreement into the record. Once read into the record, the agreements will be binding upon the parties and will be incorporated into each party’s final Decree of Dissolution.
Essentially, there are many types of ADR. The types we see most commonly in family law cases are:
- Mediation: Mediation is a forum in which a neutral third party (typically another attorney, retired judge or referee, or psychologist) facilitates communication between the parties to promote settlement. A mediator may not impose his or her own judgment on the issues. Clients and their attorney should come to mediation prepared to explain their settlement position. Through mediation, some parties are able to resolve many, if not all issues. Typically, mediation sessions last for 3- 4 hours. It often takes more than one mediation session to reach a full and complete settlement.
- Early Neutral Evaluations (ENE): an ENE is a forum in which attorneys present the core of the dispute to a neutral evaluator in the presence of the parties. The neutral then gives an assessment of the strengths and weaknesses of the case. If settlement does not result, the neutral helps narrow the dispute and suggests guidelines for managing discovery. ENEs can focus around custody and parenting time (Social Early Neutral Evaluation) or focus on the parties’ finances or marital estate (Financial Early Neutral Evaluation).
- Non-Binding Advisory Opinion: This is a forum in which the parties and their counsel present their position before a neutral. The neutral then issues a non-binding advisory opinion to the parties.
If parties cannot resolve all the issues presenting themselves in their dissolution through the ADR process, the case will go to Court for resolution.
See Rule 114 of the Minnesota Rules of Practice – District Courts for further details.
What happens if we don’t agree on custody and parenting time?
The custody evaluation process involves interviews with both parents and, depending on the age of the children, interviews with the children and/or home visits with the children at each party’s residence to observe the interaction. The evaluator may also reach out to therapists, teachers, physicians, and personal references provided by the parties. The process will usually take approximately three to four months to complete.
Once the evaluation process is complete, most evaluators will provide an oral report and written recommendations to counsel. If the parties agree with the evaluator’s recommendations, counsel will draft an Order embodying the recommendations and submit to the Court. However, it is important to realize that neither party is required to agree with the recommendations, and in that event, either party may request the evaluator to provide a complete, written report of his or her findings and recommendations, and the matter can be referred to Alternative Dispute Resolution and, if that fails, ultimately to trial.
How is child support determined? What does child support cover?
Guideline child support is a streamlined calculation using the parties’ gross incomes without reference to deductions or living expenses. Although there are nuances in the case where a party may be self-employed, unemployed or underemployed, the calculation itself is straightforward and is most often determined through review of the parties’ W-2s, tax returns, pay stubs, 1099s, or other evidence of income. In certain cases, where it is difficult to determine income, the Court may “impute” income to a parent based on his or her earning capacity rather than actual income.
As noted above, the calculation also depends in part on the percentage of parenting time each parent is awarded. The three categories consist of less than 10% parenting time; between 10% and 45% parenting time; and between 45.1% and 50% parenting time. Within the statutory guidelines, an adjustment for parenting time will decrease the support obligation if the parties share equal parenting time, and increase the support obligation if a party has less than 10% parenting time.
The online child support calculator can be found at http://childsupportcalculator.dhs.state.mn.us/
For more information, see Minnesota Statute §518A.34.
How is spousal maintenance determined?
Spousal maintenance is one of the most hotly contested issues in family law because there are no set guidelines regarding how to determine the amount and duration of the spousal maintenance award. A brief summary of the factors that are considered are:
- The financial resources of the party seeking maintenance and the parties’ ability to meet needs independently;
- The time necessary to acquire education or training to enable the party seeking maintenance to find appropriate employment and become fully or partially self-supporting;
- The standard of living established during the marriage;
- The duration of the marriage and in the case of a homemaker, the length of absence from employment;
- The loss of earnings, seniority, retirement benefits, etc. foregone by the spouse seeking maintenance;
- The age, physical and emotional condition of the spouse seeking maintenance;
- The ability of the spousal from whom spousal maintenance is sought to meet needs while meeting those of the spouse seeking maintenance;
- The contribution of each party in the acquisition, perseveration, etc. of the marital estate.
A key consideration is the “marital standard of living,” meaning what your average monthly expenses were during the marriage. Compiling a marital standard of living budget is often one of the most difficult, but most important, components of a spousal maintenance case. Your legal team will assist you in this process as needed.
Unlike child support, calculation of spousal maintenance takes into account net income rather than gross income. Additionally, spousal maintenance is taxable to the recipient and deductible to the payor, so it is critically important to factor in the projected tax effect when determining the level of spousal maintenance needed to meet the recipient’s monthly living expenses
For more information, see Minn. Stat. §518.552
What should we tell the kids?
Also, no matter how angry you may be, it is important to remember that you must not talk poorly of the other parent.
What if my ex-spouse isn’t paying spousal maintenance or child support?
Private attorneys can also bring motions for contempt of court, and we have a great deal of experience in doing so. Generally speaking, if the payor of spousal maintenance and/or child support is working and earning the same or greater income as at the time the order was entered, there are multiple means of enforcement that are very effective. Someone who doesn’t pay court ordered support can lose his/her driver’s license, can have professional licenses suspended, can have his/her wages garnished, and can even go to jail for non-payment. Because there are such extreme sanctions for non-payment, we find that these cases can often be settled out of court, with agreements for repayment of arrearages along with the resumption of on-going payments.
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